Porn. Sex mis-education for men?

15th November 2013

Porn. Sex mis-education for men?

I am often asked if I supply the "PSE" Porn Star Experience. 
Which, after much analysis, seems to be ...the same ol'sex...just louder.
And I am fairly loud...so ..its actually silly.

One of my dearest guests has sent me this article:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10441027/Don-Jon-how-porn-is-rewiring-mens-brains.html

Here is the gist:-

"The question is: does it matter? If we’re all getting our kicks and having a
good time, what’s the problem? “It’s a disconnection from what’s really in
front of you,” says Gordon-Levitt, who directed, wrote and stars in the
film. “Rather than engaging with a unique individual and listening to what
the other has to say, right at this moment, we put people in boxes with
labels. We objectify each other.”



The consequences of this are worse than you might think. The thin end of the
wedge is less enjoyment during sex. Jon’s dissatisfaction with real life sex
is something he has in common with a lot of habitual porn users. In his
book, The Brain That Changes Itself, the psychiatrist Norman
Doidge writes about a phenomenon
he began to notice among his male
patients in the mid 1990s. They watched porn – “everybody does,” they told
Doidge – and were experiencing “increasing difficulty in being turned on by
their actual sexual partners, though they still considered them attractive.”
They found themselves having to fantastise about porn scenes to get turned
on."


This slightly feminist chick is saying that teen and men are watching porn and "learning how to have sex"  - which presents an artificial view point of what sex really is like.  In a way, I agree. I have had the delight of a lot of sex in my life. :-D   And the variety has been HUGE.  I might almost say that that every single person is different.  "Porno" style sex is just one ..'style'.  There hundreds of 'styles'.  Your style is different to everyone else.  And its my duty as an escort who cares about your experience to intuitively gauge what you want... or introduce you to new realms of pleasure that you didn't know you wanted. ;-) 

I was born to entertain and to make my "audience" happy.  Yes the money aspect is there as a representation of my supply and demand.  And a girl has to pay for her party venue and shoes somehow! But really it would be a hollow existence if I didn't get a REAL kick out of luring you into my den...trapping you in my web....extracting all your sperm out... and leaving you there...withering.....like a used pair of knickers...  crawling out of my flat, gasping for breath, falling into a cab to back to the office...with colleagues looking at your flushed cheeks...thinking you've had too much coffee.... LOL hahahahahahahahaha!  (*true story ;-))

Anyway....this crazy bird then goes on... with AN AWFUL LOT OF TALK on how women have to pretend to like men cumming on their faces!!! this is hysterical.  She wants to start to educate men on how to "make love, not porn".


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FV8n_E_6Tpc

I quite liked what this guy had to say in the comments below the article:

Marriage is highly overrated and unnecessary. I personally do not
believe monogamous relationship is consistent with human nature. You can
call me promiscuous if that makes you feel better, but I cannot imagine
spending the rest of my life with the same person, performing the same
activities together for several years. I easily get bored from
repetitive activities. I like to try new things and explore different
frontiers. All species have lived polygamous lifestyle throughout their
history.

I might have to agree to the above.

I wish women were more sexually liberated and felt comfortable with a variety of partners - both for themselves and for their husbands.    I admire the couples that see me that are secure enough in their relationship to play with me.  I guess my utopia would be a world full of sexually liberated people who are open and honest about

where they are...

and who they are with

and what they are up to

and can they watch!

I admire those special few of you who I have met who are bold enough to explore their desires (because life is too short and precious to leave things in your imagination).

And I admire you more to have chosen to trust your sexual adventures with ME. (because life is too long to put up with the consequences you may experience if you don't choose me as your sexual outlet.)

I guess what I am trying to say... my utopia will never happen.  And affairs, with all their passion, are too destructive, emotionally draining and fraught with strings attached, expectations and so on.

So really...I am the only solution.  Well.  My fellow escorts and I offer the next best alternative anyway!

Now if only you could get in my good books... you'd be made.

xxx  Your favourite london escort... Christine Love xx